Thursday, 8 January 2015

Sydney ... deep sadness in Cygnet... Festival is coming

We arrive in Cygnet to balmy weather and enjoy an evening stroll around the Quay.
Feels like you could cut the air with a knife!



 We watch the spectacle of a cruise ship departing..




 Then back to our 'digs'
Morris the resident wombat is in a festive mood.

 Sleeping beauty on Saturday morning..

 Over to the rocks for breakie..Thomas is thoroughly enjoying his new camera..

 Experiencing the Sydney summer (and how) walking from Ashfield to see my dearest Pa.
 After a wonderful wonderful morning visit with Pa...I head back to town...purchase a couple of quirky skirts from the Markets then treat myself top lunch at MCA cafe...always wanted to check it out...What a view!!

 Delish lunch too
 Back at the ranch...Tom and John are back from their morning visiting the Aztec exhibition at the Museum...and the old favourites too... Dymocks..Myer...
It's pool time...one happy chappy..
 After a refreshing dip I take refuge from the sun...while watching the son
 A quiet afternoon of reading and snoozing...and we are refreshed and ready for pre-Opera dinner..


 Here we go...One of my favourite walks...never loses it's excitement factor..

 Fabulous seats

 The Governor General (Cosgrove) and  NSW Governor (Hurley) are seated in the same row as us!
 Intermission view...always stunning...

 Brilliant performance tonight...fantastic cast..thoroughly enjoyable..

 Now for the walk 'home'

Sunday and we wander down to the Opera House at 6.30am..beautiful morning light





 We begin the Backstage Tour at 7am..
Sets from last night's La Boheme..

 Then to the Opera theatre orchestra pit..
 Maestro..
 Leading lady's dressing room
 This way to...

 Tah-dah...give us a tune Tom...

 Up-Stage / Prompt-side  Trap door .....for those in the know
 On stage floor...
 The grand in the Concert hall rehearsal space...
 Great view from here..
 Sound 'clouds'
 Ready for afternoon performance
 For those superstitious theatre folk...the kissing wall backstage.Many famous lips!!


Now this is a room with a view



Great experience...followed by breakie at the Opera Kitchen..

We pick up a car and stop in at Glebe...(some bookshops there you know!!)
I find a Vinnies and enjoy a rummage through their clothes.
John ends up buying a number of shirts..

Then we head to Leichhardt...and oh look...a bookshop!!
Lunch break..



 I visit the sad looking Forum...so many closed shops..

Affogatos and Gelato before heading to the airport.


 Sydney clouds....

Monday morning and we get stuck into work...
but I notice something is wrong.. Beautiful Nerissa from Lotus is being held in a long long embrace just outside our window... and the look of deep concern is clearly on the faces of the two friends who hold her.
I watch and wait ..then see Nerissa standing bereft and weeping..I go and hold her for awhile..then ask what has happened..
Giselle has left us...gone in the most tragic of circumstances
There are no words..



Matthew expresses what we all feel...

This week, Cygnet lost a daughter. A woman of stature. Giselle Benton didn’t just cook at The Lotus Eaters, she was part of our lives.
What do you say about someone who you didn’t really know, but you loved all the same? A person whose presence behind the stove was as reassuring as a calm hand on the back of your neck? A woman who wasn’t the centre of the attention, but created a place that became a centre of your community?
This week we lost someone more than just the pan rattler at the local caff. We lost an artist with the camera. An angel with the oven. A funny, spirited, opinionated woman whose politics was as personal as her menu. A friend to our dog, our child, our friends. The hairdresser grew vegetables for Giselle and her partner Alex at The Lotus Eaters. Locals sold their meat, or greens or fruit to the place, often as much for the sense of belonging as the cash it brought in. Friends worked there, possibly for the money in hard times. Probably for the companionship. For the laughs. Because for some of us, we were drawn to the quirky, singular, wonderful, predictably unpredictable world created in our little village by Giselle and Alex.
I always felt better for dropping by and seeing Giselle at her work. I went for coffee, for cake, for lunch sometimes. At least I thought I did. I really went for that sense of belonging. For a familiar face. A team of virtually all women who brought simple pleasure to the rough apple box tables. The food, where so much today is cookie cutter and formulaic, has always been imbued with the passion of the cooks. The curries weren’t always authentic to any particular Asian nation, the pizzas weren’t Italian. This was Cygnet food that was always crafted and tested and tasted along the way. Cooking from the heart that has never failed to astound. A rare treat in a homogenised world.
For many of us, Giselle was only seen at work. She didn’t socialise freely in other places. She kept her own company, and that of her dogs and partner and close mates. She worked enormous hours, with enormous talent. And her going has left an enormous hole with ripples felt far and wide by the people we hold dear.
We didn’t just lose part of the soul of our community. We lost part of the heart, and lungs and mind of Cygnet. When someone dies, especially in a close knit society, grief is like a blow to the chest. It sucks out air and unsteadies your gate. It’s a reminder that no matter how remarkable, how permanent, how unique things may seem, all things must change. And now we face a future without someone who helped make Cygnet a special place for so many of us.

I will remember Giselle’s time in our lives with great joy, but with one wrenching regret. I don’t think I ever really told her anything I have just written.

I will miss seeing Giselle taking a break out the side next to Tom's bedroom window.
Rest in Peace gentle Giselle

The town rallies together..people are stopping in the street to embrace and care for one another.
A condolence book and flowers are placed in the street..




The Lotus women come together on Tuesday morning to begin prep-ing for opening during Folk Festival..the work is sustaining them..
There is continual support pouring in from all avenues of the Community.

As the week progresses more Festival goers arrive in town.


It is hard to feel the usual joy this year..
Thomas enjoys some minecraft time...made even better with an enormous wheel of brie to munch through..

We set up some boxes of free books to get into the Festival spirit..they are disappearing...nice

 The boys have to get busy when a couple of loads of wood we ordered arrive on our back doorstep.
Great job boys!! Will be nice and dry by winter..





 Friday dawns a sunny one despite the predicted rain...
I take a walk around town early when all is calm and quiet...things will rev up today for Festival opening tonight.




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